Like the girl in Lennon-McCartney’s big hit, “I Saw Her Standing There,” I was just seventeen when love, in the form of an Alberta girl named Marja, blew into my life on a rainy night in Toronto. The refrain paraphrases two key lines in this 1963 song by The Beatles. The verses imagine a conversation with a young single person around this crucial question: “Can you live without her?” I couldn’t, so we got married four days after my 19th birthday.
Can You Live Without Her?
Can you live without her? If you can, let her go But if you can’t Reach for her hand Move on in tandem with her Not someone else With her
Love blew in on a west wind Lit a flame deep within I knew the moment That rain-drenched moment That she was perfect for me Not someone else For me
I was 17 when she first made My heart boom My eyes still light up when I see her Cross a room
I wish you what you long for Someone who loves you back May joy surprise you Revitalize you With someone who’s right for you Not someone else For you
I was 17 when she first made My heart boom My eyes still light up when I see her Cross a room